The Golden Rule

I remember this rule being drilled into me as a child. Treat others the way you would like to be treated. It’s something that has stuck with me all while growing up and as an adult. Truthfully, I’m not a very religious person but I try very hard to live by certain standards. This rule is one that I try really hard to follow.

The Golden Rule is very simple. I’m not even sure if it’s even taught to kids anymore. So how does this translate into being an adult and SLP?

First, if someone gives me a gift or does something nice for me, I write a hand written thank you note. This is a practice that I feel has fallen by the wayside and it’s important. I will be teaching my daughter this as she grows up. People like to feel appreciated for going out of their way.

Second, during interactions with coworkers, friends, parents, acquaintances, or really anyone, be warm. Be kind. Everyone is dealing with things that you don’t know about. It does not behoove you to act like you’re better than anyone. Not everyone will reciprocate and that’s ok. But enter any interaction as a kind person.

Third, be open to learning from other people. Everyone has something to teach another person. No one knows it all.

Fourth, be open to new relationships. If you’re new to a job or community, it can be hard to forge relationships. But you never know when someone you just meet could become your new best friend!

Fifth, offer help whenever you’re able. It might be advice when asked, help setting something up, or an ear to listen.

As an adult and an SLP, I think applying the golden rule to our lives is a good thing!